Real happiness....

I started luving something.. something very special..

In all these days many things seemed to be very important.. but u would not have identified wht is so important. i had been the happiest and the most grief sticken person.. remained aloof and many more things which made me worst.... i did not know tht time how to enjoy life .. i was living the life which i wanted tooo.. but now when i started to live to see happiness in everyone eyes.. i knew the actual happiness ..i started to relish each moment.. More than u like the person . start relishing the moments for the people who luv u and for the people who want to make u happy.


This happiness wht i have now is the reality all the others which was , was my choice and went wrong..


U will really know this actual happiness one fine day and i am damn sure tat u will understand it at tht time.... until tht everthing will remain unexplained..


U feel it is wrong but it not.. Things done are never undone...


Y we want to live this life..? its for happiness... when u get tht so abundantly tell me wht u need more than tht???


I feel i am the happiest person in the world.....


Now i luv each morning when i wake up.. day is much beautiful than it were b4 .. Things keep on changing and it is actually is...


Stop complaining to wht u dont have or dont find it, just start enjoying with wht u have.... People u would have found me writing abt the hatred which i had towards life.. and the way how i am writing now.. thr is lots and lots of change..


The reason for all the change in me was someone very special and the reason for this much happinesss is again someone very special..



Start relishing each moment rather than complaining abt each and everything.....this happiness is true happiness..

Again .....A Thanks giving day

One thing i understand in a recent incident... If you are in to any relationship. Make sure that things goes well .. when you start moving away from some thing ... the first thing which will come to our mind is MISTAKES ... when we are close with some one ppl see our positive side even if we have negative sides... positives will over come the negative one.. but when things goes wrong Negatives overcomes positive...
Any way nothing is permanent in this earth... For every thing there is an END .. when you are in NEGATIVE phase never worry about it.. Time the best medicine in this earth. It will give you everything.

Its all how long you travel in a relationship. For Some ppl travel(Relationships) will be for a long time but it doest mean that u r happy with that and at the same time some thing ends soon but it doest mean that we are not happy with it.I am firm believer in certain things if your relation ship is good enough there is no end to it..only end when u leave this earth.

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Surprises

I was about write what i promised in last blog .... but in between i was moved to a new country... Oh my god life got lot of surprises. Here i am experiencing lot of new things.... give me a break i ll be back in few days bye,,,,

Coins and humans

Coins have two sides .... Humans have 223128 sides so far and m still counting...

No one can define a person as bad or good only person in the universe who can identify those characters are me.... no no that's you and you only. Why we are moving out from a problem. Why a relationship ends... are all depends upon the individuals decisions.For those decisions or justification they used to take help by pointing the society.I am not here to point any one that you did a mistake. No one is perfect.
Even i am trying to follow certain rules,Like.... you should not blame others...Never give excuses and at the same time, try to not accept excuses from others. If you done anything wrong never give a justification for that... try to accept your mistakes, Never give reasons or excuses.

You know the biggest and toughest job is to speak truth.. which is very hard. Just try for a day you will come to know how many of them get hurt ed because of your truth. But it doest mean that because of you they got hurted. Even i tried it many times but also failed many times... some times heads some times tail. I have lost many things because of this but i am not saying that i will speak only truth but i tried many times.

Now a days i tired to stop giving reason for certain things which i am doing ... I felt that if that person is close to your heart then whats is the necessary to give a reason and at the same time if you don't understand something from the other side better ask for it don't bug your self....

Boring.... Nxt one will be a interesting topic for which m starting my understanding towards the society and its about a famous 3 letter word which starts with s.

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Redesign the Rules

Finish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could. Some blunders and absurdities no doubt crept in, forget them as soon as you can. Tomorrow is a new day, you shall begin it well and serenely. Problems are always there.... Yes every day we are crossing many hurdles created by the society and we are also contributing to the society.I want to break lot of hurdles.... to name it few are i want to remove the community marriages... there should be lot of inter cast and community marriages. people should accept and allow them to choose their own life partner. Young generation should not exploit the freedom given to them by few families. They are representing whole new way of living so they should respect and make a better life which would turn in to good example and also make other communal cracks to realize them self to given freedom to their own children's.

I think there are n number of choices thats why people keep on searching for some thing which i find the base of any problem. They are not ready to stick something...If you are real hero be with the problems and try to rectify it don't ever run away from problems. Live for your self. Don't care about your society. Be truthful to yourself. Never loose your path even if the society rejects it. But make sure that if you are running opposite to the society make sure that you will live a successful life otherwise it will turn in to terriable example that it will make the society to stick to their rules. When you live a successful life which will make them to realize.. which would bring a new change...we should try to create a better society for future generations.

Arrange Marriages

If you read the latest outlook copy you will understand where the country is stepping. The cover story of the magazine is SINGLE FATHERS... Its clearly stating a drastic change in the cultural aspects. People are nowadays not ready to sit and talk. They want to move quickly. They are forgetting the values for the realtions and our culture. I am not against the India Arrange marriage style... but its time to think. Our fathers and elders should think all these aspects in mind before going to an arrange marriage for their daughters and sons. They should give value to their bloods. 

One misleading arrange marriage will lead the entire life in big questions but still there are sucessful marriages. We must make our family to understand the importance of our emotions and feelings towards any marriage. Our fathers are still following the society rules... you may think what is soceity rules... its simple .. their main aim is to potrait themself good in the society. My question to them is if your son or daughter accpeting your words  and getting married... if every thing goes fine then there wont be any problem, But today there is a drastic change in the minds of young generation which may lead them to  broke their relationships. During that course of time you son or daughter will be alone. Even your society wont be carring anything ...

Guys and Gurls never break anything easily. Its really difficult to get a good heart... if ur a guy who want to fcuk any body for any thing... never choose a emotionally weaken person....Gurls never do anything silly dont break a emotionally weaken heart.... I have seen people who are emotionally broken and still living in the Photo frame... so if u r not a kind of gurl who want to enjoy you ll find your type. Leave the emotioanlly crack people.

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My Thought...

I feel thr is big change in ma life..

I can really feel somthing nice is happening but do no twant to reveal tht at any second.. I know tht i am coward.. and i trust this cowardness will stop many bad things to happen.. feel wht i do is correct though it is not..

I always write blog when i am sad or when i am happy. u might have known in wht mood i am writing now. Certain things happen in life just like without any alarm and we need to accept it and move on..
It sounds crap to me and even to the reader but stupidness always makes things clear.

When u find a photocopy of urself u will understand..................