Thursday, September 4, 2008

Arrange Marriages

If you read the latest outlook copy you will understand where the country is stepping. The cover story of the magazine is SINGLE FATHERS... Its clearly stating a drastic change in the cultural aspects. People are nowadays not ready to sit and talk. They want to move quickly. They are forgetting the values for the realtions and our culture. I am not against the India Arrange marriage style... but its time to think. Our fathers and elders should think all these aspects in mind before going to an arrange marriage for their daughters and sons. They should give value to their bloods. 
One misleading arrange marriage will lead the entire life in big questions but still there are sucessful marriages. We must make our family to understand the importance of our emotions and feelings towards any marriage. Our fathers are still following the society rules... you may think what is soceity rules... its simple .. their main aim is to potrait themself good in the society. My question to them is if your son or daughter accpeting your words  and getting married... if every thing goes fine then there wont be any problem, But today there is a drastic change in the minds of young generation which may lead them to  broke their relationships. During that course of time you son or daughter will be alone. Even your society wont be carring anything ...

Guys and Gurls never break anything easily. Its really difficult to get a good heart... if ur a guy who want to fcuk any body for any thing... never choose a emotionally weaken person....Gurls never do anything silly dont break a emotionally weaken heart.... I have seen people who are emotionally broken and still living in the Photo frame... so if u r not a kind of gurl who want to enjoy you ll find your type. Leave the emotioanlly crack people.


contd...


No comments: