Relation ship(sinks)

Reading this blog - One question to you! have you ever loved some one in your life?. If yes is your answer .Nxt question ? Are you moving with the same person now? or if both of you are married? If yes is your answer then congrats ppl. Even you can share your success stories with us... we love to hear

In todays fast moving world importance to relationships are becoming worse. People are not ready to fight for their love instead breaking easily. People those are facing first time a break will be affected more but still things should move as it is designed by universal laws.

While writing this blog one of my friend came and sat with me..... after watching the screen he asked me few questions...For which i don't have a proper answer if you have... share it with us.
1. He loved me after seeing my character. right! ... Now y she left?
2. How can he imagine a new person instead of me? for this question i know the answer
3.Is possessiveness is good or bad? i ll say its good

Any way ... after all When i traveled to the Garden city , I stayed with ma friends. As usual we boozed on that day night. I met a guy working in Dell he said one story which happened in Dell....
He had shared his bed with one of his colleague who already married and their marriage was a love marriage. Wat's happening here.... outsiders call us as a cultured country. But do we deserve it any more

Even if you had a break in your love. Try to re patch the problems. Give your best to solve it. Still if ppl don't accept you. Try to maintain the dignity and respect to her or him. Try to be friend at least and if possible don't disturb her. Because she the person who you loved . But another Question is how many people deserve your dignity and respect.

A recent survey predicted the following reasons for breaking the relationships

Why relationships fail

Not all marriages fail for the same reason. Nor is there usually one reason for the breakdown of a particular marriage. Nevertheless, we hear some reasons more often than others.

They are:

Poor communication
Financial problems
A lack of commitment to the marriage
A dramatic change in priorities
Infidelity

There are other causes we see a lot, but not quite as often as those listed above .They are:

Failed expectations or unmet needs
Addictions and substance abuse
Physical, sexual or emotional abuse
Lack of conflict resolution skills

If we look at the statistics, we find that New Delhi leads with the highest number of divorces in the country, with more than 8,000-9,000 cases every year, followed by Mumbai and Bangalore with 4,000 and 5,000 cases per year. Even in Kerala, the most literate state in India accounts for an increase of 350 per cent in the last 10 years, while Punjab and Haryana have recorded 150 per cent increase. The judge of a matrimonial court commented that there used to be one to two cases in the 1960s, 100-200 in 1980s, about 1,000 in 1990s, but now it has increased to about 9,000 cases per annum.

Our solution is discuss, there should not be any communication gap... recent survey predicted 59% of divorce are happening because lack of proper communication. Got problem sit and talk.
Even surrounding's plays a major role in our life. So make sure your are surrounded by proper people.


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